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		<title>Return of the Mack.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jul 2011 01:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After almost a year (too long!) of absence, the blog will be making a comeback. New style, new format. Stay tuned.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notmyhair.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7793689&amp;post=261&amp;subd=notmyhair&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After almost a year (too long!) of absence, the blog will be making a comeback. New style, new format. </p>
<p>Stay tuned.</p>
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		<title>Throwback Thursday.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 15:34:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kameron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every-other-weekly. A history of (racial) violence. In the Heat of the Night, 1967. It&#8217;s one of the most surprising and revolutionary moments committed to film: Sidney Poitier&#8217;s character Virgil Tibbs slapping a white man. What gets me about this scene every time is its authenticity. None of the actors knew beforehand that Poitier would slap&#160;&#8230; <a href="http://notmyhair.wordpress.com/2010/02/18/throwback-thursday-6/">Read&#160;more</a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notmyhair.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7793689&amp;post=241&amp;subd=notmyhair&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every-other-weekly.</p>
<p>A history of (racial) violence.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0061811/" target="_blank">In the Heat of the Night</a>, 1967.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s one of the most surprising and revolutionary moments committed to film: Sidney Poitier&#8217;s character Virgil Tibbs slapping a white man.</p>
<p>What gets me about this scene every time is its authenticity. None of the actors knew beforehand that Poitier would slap Endicott back; the surprise is real, and the fallout &#8212; &#8220;There was a time when I could&#8217;ve had you shot&#8221; &#8212; speaks volumes. White discomfort with (ostensibly) shifting racial privilege was palpable and real.</p>
<p>Multiple strains of history are present in this moment. As <a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/films/features/story-of-the-scene-in-the-heat-of-the-night-1967-1676905.html" target="_blank">The Independent</a> says, &#8220;When he does it, you feel his reply to every policeman who ever harried him and every humiliation received over the years. The world changed with that one slap.&#8221;</p>
<p>Poitier the actor and Tibbs the fiction, acting as one. Amen.</p>
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		<title>Throwback Thursday.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 15:55:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kameron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every-other-weekly. Tupac, &#8216;Keep Ya Head Up,&#8217; from Strictly 4 My N.I.G.G.A.Z. [1993; Atlantic/Interscope]. The most vocal opponents of hip hop over the years have always missed the point. The industry may overwhelmingly vapid now, but the most disillusioned among fans are those that remember what rap as a social and not only musical form once&#160;&#8230; <a href="http://notmyhair.wordpress.com/2010/02/04/throwback-thursday-5/">Read&#160;more</a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notmyhair.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7793689&amp;post=222&amp;subd=notmyhair&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every-other-weekly.</p>
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<p>Tupac, &#8216;Keep Ya Head Up,&#8217; from <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Strictly-4-My-N-I-G-G-Z/dp/B000005Z0G" target="_blank">Strictly 4 My N.I.G.G.A.Z</a>.</em> [1993; Atlantic/Interscope].</p>
<p>The most vocal opponents of hip hop over the years have always missed the point.</p>
<p>The industry may overwhelmingly vapid now, but the most disillusioned among fans are those that remember what rap as a social and not only musical form once had the potential to be. Opportunities for cultural critique in hip hop were, by the time &#8216;Keep Ya Head Up&#8217; appeared, boundless. &#8220;Welfare Queen&#8221; had already entered the cultural lexicon; black citizenship had been undermined by the beating of Rodney King; black men had been demonized and emasculated by the political lynching of Willie Horton; I could go on.</p>
<p>Hip hop became a space for blacks to secure their own cultural identity, distinct from and resistant to a dominant American culture to which they clearly did not belong. It was a calling card for cultural resistance, and I consider Tupac to have been one of the most important figures in the movement.</p>
<p>&#8216;Keep Ya Head Up&#8217; stands out among most other tracks in the hip hop catalog for me because it&#8217;s the product of something we don&#8217;t see very often in the black community &#8212; even less so in the rap community: male feminism. In its treatment of race, gender and class, &#8216;Keep Ya Head Up&#8217; is a song that attempts to encapsulate, not only the experience of America&#8217;s struggling black women, but also the black men continually undermining them.</p>
<p>Clearly a product of it&#8217;s time, it&#8217;s a song that asks black men &#8212; and black America &#8212; to be better.</p>
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		<title>It&#8217;s beginning to look a lot like Black History Month.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 07:04:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kameron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stay tuned for increasingly frequent McDonald&#8217;s commercials featuring black people. And there&#8217;s this: True. We&#8217;ll never get over it. What would be the fun in that?<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notmyhair.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7793689&amp;post=256&amp;subd=notmyhair&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stay tuned for increasingly frequent McDonald&#8217;s commercials featuring black people.</p>
<p>And there&#8217;s this:</p>
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<p>True.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll never get over it. What would be the fun in that?</p>
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		<title>Black Skin, White Military.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 15:22:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently I received (yet another) recruiting correspondence from the armed services. Notice something? That the military actively recruits in socioeconomically disadvantaged areas largely populated by, but not limited to, minorities is no secret; I experienced as much in high school, and was always keyed in to the fact that the military puts serious energy into&#160;&#8230; <a href="http://notmyhair.wordpress.com/2010/01/28/black-skin-white-military/">Read&#160;more</a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notmyhair.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7793689&amp;post=237&amp;subd=notmyhair&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recently I received (yet another) recruiting correspondence from the armed services.</p>
<p>Notice something?</p>
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<p>That the military actively recruits in socioeconomically disadvantaged areas largely populated by, but not limited to, minorities is no secret; I experienced as much in high school, and was always keyed in to the fact that the military puts serious energy into convincing minority and/or poor Americans with little hope of going to college that the the Armed Services can offer a &#8220;better life.&#8221;</p>
<p>Well, I happen still to be a minority. But I am not, at the moment, socioeconomically disadvantaged; and as a member of a University community, I&#8217;m certainly not living within a soc/ec disadvantaged <em>area</em>.</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s the story with the brown faces? And handsome ones, at that. Pity I wouldn&#8217;t be able to take advantage, even if I wanted to. <a href="http://voices.washingtonpost.com/44/2010/01/obama-on-equal-rights-dont-ask.html?wprss=44" target="_blank">Or would I</a>?</p>
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		<title>If I were a rich girl.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 15:12:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;If I had all the money in the world &#8212; if I were a wealthy girl,&#8221; who happened to be heterosexual &#8212; I&#8217;d likely be marrying a less wealthy, less educated man despite declining rates of (opposite-sex) marriage overall, according to a study released last week by the Pew Center. The reverse is, of course,&#160;&#8230; <a href="http://notmyhair.wordpress.com/2010/01/26/if-i-were-a-rich-girl/">Read&#160;more</a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notmyhair.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7793689&amp;post=226&amp;subd=notmyhair&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;If I had all the money in the world &#8212; if I were a wealthy girl,&#8221; who happened to be heterosexual &#8212; I&#8217;d likely be marrying a less wealthy, less educated man despite declining rates of (opposite-sex) marriage overall, according to <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/19/us/19marriage.html" target="_blank">a study released last week</a> by the Pew Center.</p>
<p>The reverse is, of course, true for men, for whom the economic dependability inherent to marriage is becoming increasingly more important, with men more often playing the dependent. Makes sense. What I tend to think of as marriage-age women (late 20s &#8211; 40s) belong to the generations responsible for producing more college-educated women than men. Gender roles are shifting &#8212; though not becoming less binary, mind you.</p>
<p>But this article and others like it strike me as easy fodder for the &#8220;Marriage is changing / All hope is lost&#8221; crew, i.e. social conservatives &#8211; a further reminder of how tightly our nation seems to hold to an outdated conception of marriage, despite it being an institution with all forms of easily acknowledged social, economic and political barriers. A conception, no less, that is doomed not to last, if the dead canaries about our nation&#8217;s feet are any indication. (Why hello, divorce rate.)</p>
<p><a href="http://roomfordebate.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/01/24/alpha-wives-the-trend-and-the-truth/#ralph" target="_blank">More than one person has mentioned</a> that the (admittedly, sad) marriage trends of African Americans are good indication of the declining state &#8212; some would say &#8216;significance&#8217; &#8212; of marriage.</p>
<p>But really, we needn&#8217;t look further than the same-sex marriage movement: reifying a dusty institution with one hand, subverting its cultural and social norms with the other.</p>
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		<title>Throwback Thursday.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 15:33:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every-other-weekly. The one that started it all. The one that gave me nightmares as a wee child. Vaguely torturous cultural statement in the making.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notmyhair.wordpress.com&amp;blog=7793689&amp;post=218&amp;subd=notmyhair&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every-other-weekly.</p>
<p>The one that started it all.</p>
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<p>The one that gave me nightmares as a wee child.</p>
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<p>Vaguely torturous cultural statement in the making.</p>
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